==> I have been told by a fellow that I trust that solar and wind are not capable of supplying the amount of power we need.
That may be true given the current state of technology, but thankfully, technology is not static. The day may come when we figure how to harness a sufficient amount of the sun's energy to fulfill our needs.
==> it's that there is NO technological fix to the problem. This is a real-world problem, and all solutions are merely trade-offs of real advantages AND disadvantages.
The depends entirely on what you consider the problem(s), and how you define that.
With respect to energy, there is supply and demand and whenever demand exceeds supply there is a problem. To solve that problem, you have to look at the underlycauses. Is the basic cause problem excessive demand, or insufficient supply? If you consider the problem to be excessive demand, then it is because our needs are too great, our desires to great, or a overall lack of efficiency? If you consider it an insufficient supply problem, then the question is based in a lack of material, or a lacking of technology to efficiently use the material?
To me, the best answer is 'all of the above'.
There is no one single answer because it's not one single problem. There are several problems and each will require a different types of solution, and technology is most definitely part of the overall equation, as are personal attitudes and behaviors, but but no means, is either all of the equation.
Good Luck
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As a circle of light increases so does the circumference of darkness around it. - Albert Einstein