Unfortunate that peoples minds so quickly give negative connotations to ZDAS04's remark.
I do not know ZDAS04 or anything about him, but I know ZDAS04 is only communicating with best intentions what he knows in his heart is the solution to adversity. He is communicating that hard work, perseverance in the face of adversity is what allows us to succeed everyday. We, as a self-selected group of engineers participating in an engineering forum, all embrace these tactics every single day in our engineering duties. If your are an engineer with any experience you have been kicked when down, failed, laughed at probably behind your back, and had to make do with scarce or non-existent resources. But we keep coming back, we fight, we persevere through our mistakes and ultimately we succeed. Many of us also apply these lessons to our life outside of work. We hold ourselves to this standard so why cannot we hold others to this standard? Do we think others are inferior and not capable of commitment, perseverance, and hard work? I would question those with their immediate negative outlook on ZDAS04 what their true feelings really are. He knows what would work for him, get out clean up the trash, bucket out the water, and find a way to make it work...one 2x4 at a time. No one is coming to help you and it is up to you. When you make a mistake, have a construction company calling telling you that you are holding up a $100K a day operation does anyone bring dinner and make sure the coffee is still on at 1:00 AM? No, you stick it out most often because by that time all the project champion cheerleaders are long gone and now it is your fault the company is loosing money and your neck is on the line.
You can say that a small example is not as great as loosing your home, however, the philosophy and answer is the same. We succeed through self-reliance, it does not mean we have not been helped or exist in a vacuum, but when things get rough it comes down to you.
We of all groups, the engineers, the problem solvers of the world know what it takes to get things done and succeed. To not communicate and share this knowledge of how we operate would be a failure. We hold ourselves to these standards, why should we not hold others to this standard? View it from the constructive side, if everyone had the resolve and perseverance the country would be a better place. There are countless examples of this at work all over the country; towns flood, tornadoes come through, peoples homes burn down, businesses burn. It is the reaction to these occurrences which determine the final outcome.
Instead of looking at it as negative, please view it as constructive, he is sharing what he knows works and wishes others could perceive there problems in the same light. It has worked for us, why cannot it work for others?